“So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate ! ” (Matthew 19:6). This Holy Scripture passage teaches us that God’s will is for peace and unity within our marriages. However, sometimes violent arguments or hurtful actions make it difficult to live happily and at peace in our partnerships. This is why we are lucky that even what is impossible for human beings is possible for God. Trusting God and bringing our troubles to Him allows us to understand the Bible as a guide to couples’ happiness. God’s word teaches that: “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” (Ecclesiastes 4:12). We can turn to God with total confidence for advice on how to save your relationship.
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” (Philippians 2:3-4)
“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)
“In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.” (Ephesians 4:26)
Learn from the Bible how to forgive and be forgiven.
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1)
“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24)
Love your neighbor as you love yourself
“In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.” (Ephesians 5:28)
Look with the eyes of love
“May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer—may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love.” (Proverbs 5:18-19)
Give your whole self
“My beloved is mine and I am his; he browses among the lilies.” (Song of Songs 2:16)
Whatever problems we face or crises we encounter as a couple, God is with us. Prayer can heal and strengthen our love, calm our anger, and fix what is broken. Find a group with Hozana for support in your prayer journey.