Singleness can be experienced in many ways. It is a life stage that can be deeply fruitful, offering opportunities for self-discovery, service to others, and wholehearted commitment to meaningful missions. But when singleness feels prolonged or undesired, it can become challenging. In these moments, we can entrust our desire for love to God, asking Him to guide and accompany us. Meditating on Scripture can help, as the Bible offers comfort and encouragement to those seeking their soulmate.
"‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’" (Jeremiah 29:11)
"The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing." (Psalm 23:1)
"Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and He will establish your plans." (Proverbs 16:3)
"Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:33)
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." (Philippians 4:6)
"Take delight in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4)
"Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him and He will act." (Psalm 37:5)
For more encouragement, explore Bible verses on patience.
"The Lord is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in Him." (Nahum 1:7)
"For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline." (2 Timothy 1:7)
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." (Psalm 34:18)
Hozana offers online prayer journeys and novenas to support singles, including free programs in partnership with Christian coaching and dating platforms:
"Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart." (Psalm 27:14)*
In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus says:
"For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it." (Matthew 19:12)
While single women appear rare in the Old Testament, Jesus’ ministry included unmarried women among His followers—some of whom left everything to travel with Him (though some disciples’ mothers are mentioned). Notably, Martha and Mary of Bethany (Lazarus’ sisters) are never described as having husbands. Jesus’ interactions with women marked a radical departure from cultural norms, affirming their dignity and calling.
The term "gift of singleness" comes from the Apostle Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 7:7:
"I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that."
This reminds us that every life vocation—whether marriage or singleness—can be lived fully with God’s grace. Singleness, like marriage, is a calling to love and serve Christ uniquely.